Tuesday, August 18, 2015

What To Do When You Feel Behind In Blogging

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Stop. Drop. Roll. Take a break. Do a jig. Run around naked.

Often times, I feel overwhelmed by the number of posts I need to write, the number of books I need to read for the week, and the number of comments and blogs I need to reply to. Let's be honest here, blogging gets crazy. Newbie bloggers might not think this is true now, but just wait, the stress of book blogging will slowly overcome you. Like sleep.

Therefore, I've decided to share with you a number of tips that have gotten me through the potential burnout of being a blogger.

This is the simplest, and most easiest thing to do if you feel like you're in a blogging slump. When you're on a break, whether it's for a week or a month, you don't have to worry about scheduling, commenting back, or any other obligations

As Amber @ YA Indulgences says, (currently on a hiatus now):
It's super refreshing to wake up every morning and not think "I need to blog today". I just like that I don't have to worry or stress about doing blog posts. It's freeing.

Thank you Amber!



By this, I mean to close away any old open tabs of blogs, mark all Bloglovin' posts as "read", stop commenting on blog posts from 1994 and get with the future already! I suffer from this a lot, and I've noticed that it impacts my commenting back. If I leave posts open on my laptop for too long, I'll lose interest in them, so that's not a good thing. My solution, and tip to you, is just to focus on the new posts from blogs you love, rather than being stuck in the old. Unless one of the posts is still super interesting to you.

Starting fresh could also mean starting over completely with a new blog, which I have seen some bloggers do, but it's not something I personally will do. (But moving to Wordpress? Maybe one day!)


Rather than commenting on a hundred blogs in one day, just focusing on 10 to 15 blogs a day is much more manageable. I have been guilty of leaving all my commenting until the last day, and in the end I'm burned out by all the commenting. However, if I take things one at a time, and comment on a couple posts throughout the day, I feel more interested in the posts I am reading, and less burned out. So win win for me and the blogger!

This works on your own blog too! I always had (have) a hard time with commenting back on my own TTT post because my response would be the same over and over again if I tackled them all at once. However, when I responded to comments right away, I felt less repetitive when it came to replying, since I replied as the comments were posted.



This worked extremely well for me during the academic year, when I was incredibly busy with not only work and classes, but studying as well. During the year, I would read on Monday, Wednesday, and Friday whenever I had free time, comment on blogs on Tuesday and Thursday, and schedule blog posts on Saturdays and Sundays. This well balanced schedule helped me read about two to three books a week, which is something I had been struggling with beforehand.



Lastly, you can just panic. There's no reason not to right? Sometimes life will always be out of control and there is nothing you can do about it hahah! Hey some people live off of stress! It makes people stronger, and allows them to keep blogging until the end of time.

Just look at Shannon @ It Starts At Midnight, she is very overwhelmed, but is doing a fabulous job at basically everything blogging-wise. 
Okay. I am insanely overwhelmed right now, because for three weeks I have been/will be posting every day, sometimes more than that because of the event AND blog tours that ended up coinciding, PLUS all books ever written coming out on September 1! I am behind on comments, and basically a big old ball of panic. BUT, blogging and reading are basically my crack, and I cannot go without a fix. And I need to talk to my people, so blogging is kind of ideal for that too. And even though the event IS a little stressful, it has been so amazing to see everyone being so inspirational and kind and supportive that the uplifting parts absolutely outweigh the stressful ones.

You go Shannon. I have faith in you. And the event she is talking about is Shattering Stigmas, which you all must go check out.


So yes, I'm hoping that maybe this will help some bloggers out when it comes to managing blogging and time, and what to do when getting behind on comments on posts. The bottom line is, it's OKAY that you are behind. The world isn't going to smite you if you don't return EVERY SINGLE COMMENT within the day you posted! Bloggers know that life gets in the way, so it's completely acceptable to slack off once in a while.

How do you handle blogging stress? Do you have any other tips to add?

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Well, you already know some of my thoughts since I told you a few minutes ago. But I wanted to share them here while I'm still thinking about this post and how overwhelming blogging is for me right now, instead of pushing it back until it's become another one of those posts that I should have commented on ages ago. :p

I've always been a major pusher of breaks. I think you should take them when needed so you don't get burnt-out or just tired of blogging (like me atm). I honestly can't wait for mine, and I'm hoping it makes me WANT to come back with a fresh and new start at the end of it.

And of course, that "Start Fresh" option is incredibly appealing to me and also a very great idea! I'm forever behind on commenting, but what I should do is make time for the ones that are up now instead of focusing on past posts. And commenting here and there throughout a day or even a few days is good. It's something I used to do, but school and my job kind of derailed that. I would read blog posts at work but wouldn't be able to spend the proper amount of time to write a thoughtful comment. So I'd RT or save them for later but I'd just forget to do it. And then, yeah. It's bad. I've been talking about a better commenting system for ages but I haven't found one that's worked for me yet.

Schedules never work for me, so that's out. But lololol @ Shannon's comment even though I've already seen it. I'm way beyond the panic stage though. It's more like "fuck everything, I'll do what I want" tbh.

I KNOW I'VE ALREADY SAID IT BUT I'M GOING TO SAY IT AGAIN; I LOVED THIS POST!
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1 reply · active 501 weeks ago
So far, I've dealt with it by going on hiatus. It gives me time to kind of refresh my brain and rid myself of the stress/anxiety! And I'm also attempting to schedule or at least be where if I post something I have a few other posts in my drafts ready for the future, and to keep being able to draft ahead of time whether I post them at specific times or even later down the road. Posting as soon as I finish writing doesn't work out too well for me unless it's meme posts! As far as comments go...I try to take some times from each day to do some commenting. I

Awesome topic! There's definitely a variety of things to try when it gets to be stressful.
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1 reply · active 501 weeks ago
Ahhhh, I love this post so much. I've been worried about blogging overwhelming me since my university classes start again in less than two weeks.

I think that's such a wonderful idea to schedule days for each thing when times get busy. I never thought about actually sitting down and saying Tuesday and Thursday are for commenting on blogs. Stuff like that. That's such a great idea!! I'm the worst at commenting on blogs regularly.

You've motivated me!
1 reply · active 501 weeks ago
Loved this post and the watercolor markers hehe. You must know I'm a fan of cute and kawaii things and can't stop looking at the girl in your header. I do all these things and another thing I love to do is when I'm blogging, I play music. Music, no matter when or where, soothes me and transports me into another world. I feel that it's utterly impossible to not be focused when you're tuned into the best song on the radio or your favorite Spotify playlist. Another thing I do is take out a bag of chips and eat some food. Food, although not the best option, is what I go to for comfort and believe it or not, it helps so much!!! I also love how you got other bloggers into this. You're a wonderful blogger!
1 reply · active 501 weeks ago
For me, "blog stress" has never been a thing until recently, and I've been blogging (about books) since 2013. The problem is that I never really managed my time well so when I started to have blogger burn out I just stopped all together. I think hiatuses and breaks are fantastic, but I took a break practically all of 2014 and really struggled with getting back into it because I just didn't know what direction I wanted to take my blog.

This year, I'm already working on schedules and creating something that works for me ahead of time. For example: reviews go up on Tuesdays and Thursdays only, and the rest of the days are devoted to whatever suits my fancy. I read throughout the week when I'm free, and I spend a lot of my weekends doing any blog stuff because those are generally the most free (unless I'm working on Saturday/Sunday). I only have classes 2 days per week so that helps a LOT when it comes to managing my time because I'll have more free time outside of class. Totally glad I did that.

I love these tips though! I think more people need to remember that BLOGGING ISN'T A JOB. We don't get paid for what we do (which is totally okay!) and it's more of a hobby for a lot of people. So I think stressing out like crazy is sometimes not worth it at all. At the end of the day blogging isn't something you absolutely MUST do, and I hate that some people feel that it's a total requirement in their life. You're totally free to take a break whenever you want to!
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1 reply · active 501 weeks ago
When I have a blogger burnout, I usually take a break and not stress myself over not being able to share something to the world. I did that recently, but I am quite lucky that I have co-bloggers that helped me out. These are really good tips!
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1 reply · active 501 weeks ago
Great, great post. I think a whole lot of us is suffering from blogging burn out. I think taking a break is best, and for me planning. That's what is going to help me and has helped me lately!
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Wait, panic and flail is an approved option? Glad I've been doing it right! Ha, but seriously good post for me. As you saw, I apologized to my poor baby blog, which I have been avoiding lately for fanfiction and tumblr. And I feel terrible about it because I do love connecting with people. One thing I am going to try and start doing is writing a post after I read a book, because I usually just start another book right away and neglect to collect my thoughts on the one I just enjoyed! And then it stresses me out and demotivates me when it comes to writing the review. Siiigh.

And this whole scheduling thing? I used to turn my nose up at it because this is a hobby, but I seriously think that makes a lot of sense. I'm a professional procrastinator, but sometimes that trait really gets away from me with blogging since I am not paid to do it. I should start a schedule, but with flexibility for reading because that is my #1 hobby.
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1 reply · active 500 weeks ago
This is such an awesome post and your gorgeous graphics are killing me! Omg. Okay. Now for actual thoughts…NO, BUT REALLY, THE FONTS FOR YOUR GRAPHICS ARE SO CUTE.

This is all great advice. Starting fresh is my favorite tip, it's so hard to not want to comment on all the old posts from months ago that I once was interested in and then feel badly for never commenting.

Speaking of commenting, commenting just a little each day is super helpful! For the past half an hour, I commented on four (going on five) blogs. It really does make blogs manageable.

I really like the schedule that you have! I need to put a schedule together so I don't get burnt out on everything. Again.

Shannon always does a fabulous job with everything. :) She's kind of great like that.

Fantastic post, Val! I loved it!

Do I still need to answer the questions? Haha. What I do for blogging stress is go on hiatus! Other tips…well, I've already told you this one before, but making "Folders" on BlogLovin, really helps you prioritize what blogs you really want to visit regularly.
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1 reply · active 500 weeks ago
I’m not sure about the running around naked, but if it works… *strips*

What I’ve always found funny (okay, currently finding funny, because I’ve had my head in the sand up until about two days ago), is that I always tell people to calm down and we all realize that bloggers have lives that sometimes get in the way! Butttt I can’t seem to listen to that myself xD

The whole “mark all as read” thing on Bloglovin terrifies me… but maybe I need to do that.
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1 reply · active 500 weeks ago
I cannot stress enough how perfect it is that I am in the "panic and flail" section of this post. Appropriate doesn't even begin to cover it! Thanks for the #SS shoutout too!

I LOVE the idea of starting fresh with commenting- I have actually done it a time or two and it is good advice! I'll have like, 400 tabs open and I'm a week behind and then my brain starts to overheat and I just have to shut it ALL down. I HAVE also "marked all as read" on Bloglovin, because when it tells me I have ALL the posts to read and I just... I want them to go away!

And um... what is this "sleep" you speak of? ;)
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1 reply · active 500 weeks ago
I always comment a little each day. I tried commenting on like 40 blogs a day at one point but it stressed me out too much. I feel like when you do that, commenting becomes a job rather than a way to share the love. Right now, I can leave relatively long, meaningful comments but if I started commenting on a 100 blogs a day, my enthusiasm and the content of those comments would suffer.

And it is SO important to have a schedule during the academic year, especially for us college kids! We are too overworked :P But sometimes even the schedule thing was hard for me because I think there was an entire term where I didn't comment because I was overworked, tired and too focused on everything else :(

Also, taking breaks is so important, over this summer I ended up having a couple of breaks because no internet access and while I was antsy because no internet, I also really liked having some time to myself, ya know?

AND YES PANICKING! :P Love with Shannon said :)

Thank you for putting together this awesomesauce post, Val <3
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1 reply · active 500 weeks ago
I've learned to stop apologizing for not being around.

I've learned to treat is as a hobby, not a job.

And more importantly,

I've stopped thinking that my followers/readers as numbers. I think this is the most important part of all.
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1 reply · active 500 weeks ago
Awesome advice!! When I get overwhelmed I make a schedule and set aside time to do all the things I have to. I like to chunk my commenting by doing it by post. Taking hiauses really are refreshing and therapeutic. If I feel like I'm in a blogging slump I try to rotate what I do. If I don't feel like writing posts then I'll comment back. If I don't want to comment back then I'll read a book. If I don't want to do that I'll work on blog maintenance and upkeep or something else. Or maybe networking on Twitter... Great post! :)

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This is such an awesome post, girl! I agree with everything up there! A break can do wonders to your blogging, and I am also slowly getting the hang of scheduling - thanks to Rachel! :) - and I am loving it too!

I love the idea of starting fresh! I have to practice it soon, I guess! :)
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This is super helpful, thank you! Lately I feel behind but I take it as just growing pains. I'm a newer blogger so Im still learning and figuring out my limits. I do believe that if you feel overwhelmed its always a good idea to step back and take a break. A stressed and burnt out blogger has earned the right to relax and take a "me" day.
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What a wonderful post! I am barely two months into blogging and I already feel burn out, mainly cos I posted like a mad person last month - and I have this constant fear that if I don't keep it up I'll just fade back into obscurity. Which is totally ridiculous, I know. And I feel I'm a bit addicted as well, I can't help but obsessively check my comments and twitter feed >_>!! Your tips on how to stay afloat are invaluable. I don't think I'll ever go on hiatus cos I'm afraid I'd never come back, but I think I need to step off the gas a little.
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This is all great advice. I just like to walk away from writing for a day or so, or focus on discussions rather than reviews, depending on what's dragging me down. As for commenting, I go back and forth in how I do that. I want to comment back, but I also think people would rather have a visit with a comment on their own blog than a reply on mine, and that takes longer.
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Handle blogging stress? HAHA. I just don't, really. Back when I was a newbie blogger, there was no such thing as blogging stress, but OH BOY HOW THINGS HAVE CHANGED. And I'm glad they've changed, I wasn't a huge fan of yelling into a void with no response whatsoever.

But life has really gotten in the way of commenting lately. My posts are fine, and I have heaps scheduled (so at least THAT part of blogging isn't giving me stress), but I have so many comments that I haven't replied to, and it is stressing me out to the max. I know that people don't mind if replies and whatnot are late, but I personally feel bad. And the longer they sit there untouched, the more I have to reply to in the long run. I'm trying to get a handle on them at the moment, by doing about ten a day (like you said above!), but I kind of feel like it's a never ending loophole of comments.

With uni, I feel like there's even less time for blogging, which makes me sad. Hopefully I'll get back on top of it all, because I hate that stress is tied up with something I love so much.

Unfortunately, I have no tips because I am currently in the flail and panic stage, and the only way to move on from it is so slowly and surely get back on top of everything!
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This is some great advice Val! I love that the first thing you say is to take a break - I've totally done that a couple times already and it helps me to be reenergized and excited about blogging when I come back. I try to spread out my commenting throughout the week so I don't have so much to do. I'm often marking all as read on bloglovin haha because I hate seeing hundreds of posts I need to read. Right now, I've been focusing on commenting back on my blog and commenting on the blogs of people who are commenting on mine, mostly because it has kept the commenting and checking out blogs fairly manageable for me. There are a few other blogs I will check out even without a comment on mine, but I'm not pressuring myself to stay on top of every post they put up. I just know that it's not realistic for me to do everything as much as I would like so I try not to put too much pressure on myself. Great post!!
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1 reply · active 500 weeks ago
This post is so much perfection Val! Definitely take a break when you feel like you're not enjoying it more or realise you can't do it all and do whatever you need to do to feel like you've caught up.
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I took a two-month hiatus all through May and June because I really felt burnt out and I could sense that I needed a break. It was a great idea! I could comment on other blogs at my leisure, while not having to worry about my own blog and that I needed to get out a post. I didn't have to write any posts, but if inspiration ever struck me, I did sit down to write and scheduled a post. I managed to schedule about a month and a half worth of posts, and that made coming back in July also a whole lot less stressful!
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Commenting a little each day IS great advice! That and also commenting back/replying back to the comment as soon as it comes in - that way you can finish it in a minute, and you'll slowly be able to finish them all, instead of spending a good 5 hours in one day doing them all, which, let's be honest, is overwhelming and exhausting. Love all of your tips here, Val! Will be redirecting here the lost souls when they need advice ;)
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I can't believe I missed this post this week!! It's because I fell behind this week so this post is quite timely. I had a lot of actual life stuff go on this week so I found it hard to visit all the blogs, get my posts done, comment back, etc. I think the best for me is sometimes to start fresh with blogs I follow. I try to visit at least all those that comment on my posts though. A break I can see being very beneficial too. Panic is always an easy option though. Love this post so much!!!
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1 reply · active 500 weeks ago
Very useful post, thanks

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