Thursday, September 3, 2015

The Secret Life of the American Blogger


Keyword here is secret! And what the heck I have to reveal all my secrets AGAIN? Thanks to Shannon @ It Starts At Midnight for tagging me in this. Unlike you Shannon, I have never even heard of The Secret Life of the American Teenager. Nope. Wait, was this tag even based off of that? Hm. Anyways, off I go to confess. (Also, I was born in Canada...so...uh)


How Long Have You Been A Blogger?
I guess as a book blogger, I have been blogging since December 2013. However when it comes to the infamous Tumblr, I've been reblogging since 2010. So even though I technically had five years of blogging experience, I wasn't exactly talking about my life on my Tumblr blog, but more of reblogging all the cute photos and the hilarious text posts. Though I'm going to be honest and say I don't go on much anymore because 1) I have no more time and 2) I'm not really a fan of how it's evolved over the past couple years.
 
Not amused
 
At What Point Do You Think It Will Stop? 
The heck kind of question is this? I guess if I were being truly honest, I feel like I would slowly stop blogging and then just disappear. Maybe. I don't know. I do have a lot of friends that support me, so I think I would stop blogging if all of my friends stopped blogging as well. Unlike Shannon, I am bad at continuing to do things. So I would seriously be impressed if I kept blogging for, 5 years or so.

What Is The Worst Thing? What Do You Do To Make it Okay?
The worst thing? Getting stranded in the middle of nowhere with a broken down car. Or something even worse? Losing someone close to me. Or just change in general, after a long period of stability.

What I do to make it okay? Cry. Then call the Emergency Roadside Assistance.
 
Long for the past. When things were simple. Then try to move on and look towards the future. 

How Long Does It Take You To Find/Create Pictures To Use?
Forever. Literally. I will never make my 12AM deadlines for post if this keeps up. Oh look at that it's 11:46PM and I have yet to make a graphic and find all the gifs. Exhibit A right here!

Who Is Your Book Crush?
As of now, probably Noah from The Raven Boys.


What Author Would You Like To Have On Your Blog?
It's going to have to be a tie between Brandon Sanderson and Meg Cabot. Though let's be honest I would flail and froth at the mouth if such a thing ever happened.


What Do You Wear When You Write Your Blog Posts?
Absolutely nothing. NAKED. Just kidding. I usually blog at night, so most likely shorts and a tank top? Unless it's during the Winter, which means 500 blankets. And one Ollie the dog.


How Long Does It Take You To Prepare?
Prepare for what? What kind of context is this? Prepare for work? Classes? Bed? Blogging? Dog walking? I would say 30 minutes maximum for all of those. Ha.

How Do You Feel About The Book Blogging Community?
Interesting question. I have never really explicitly stated how I feel about the community right now. Though I can say that I follow the blogs of all my friends, and I mostly follow only my friends on Twitter, so if I do end up hearing about some sort of drama, I hear about it indirectly.

If I were to be truthful (because I always am), I like how there's so much discussion about all sorts of topics in the community (Controversial or not). However, I don't like the fact that sometimes the drama blows up into something huge and negative, especially when it involves threats.


What Do You Think One Should Do To Get A Successful Blog?
Just do whatever you want. And try to improve constantly, whether it's graphics, writing, design, etc. This why you're never bored, and you're basically competing with yourself. I like to compare myself and my blog between now and the past, and I have to say, my content, layout, and posts now are 10000% better than it was before.


I Would Like To Tag All The Canadians

And anyone else who wants to do this :) 

No idea whether you have to be American or not. HA 

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"I guess if I were being truly honest, I feel like I would slowly stop blogging and then just disappear." Same. :( Then maybe after a couple of months, I'll randomly post something about quitting. D: I really hope this day never comes, though! For the both of us.

I totally agree with your comments on the book community is well. I love a good discussion, but when the drama explodes into something that's way out of proportion... I'd rather stay out of it.
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Ugh exactly. But I hope it never comes! If you end up doing that I'll refer you BACK TO THIS POST.
Ha, I love this.

I like your point about the community drama - I'm quite active on tumblr, and the level of vitriol at times is particularly horrifying - like now in the aftermath of Queen of Shadows, for instance.
1 reply · active 503 weeks ago
Hahah thanks!

I haven't been on Tumblr in a while, and I'm following inactive people at this point. But yeah, I can just imagine all of those text posts and reblogs. And I thought it was bad 2 years ago.
It takes me forever too to find pictures and gifs. It's so time consuming! Sometimes, I really want to grow my blog into something big, but then, I Wonder if I'll even be blogging tomorrow. I'm just not consistently motivated. Besides, there real life as well. I hate change with a passion. I'm not at all adventurous, so when things change I freak out and spend time crying about what was. It was a fun post!
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I hate finding gifs and images! Even though I like them on my post. And there was this time where I was wondering if I should upgrade to self hosted, but then that costed money, and I wasn't sure what would happen if I stopped working altogether.

Thanks Sarah!
It takes me forever to make graphics, too! I'm always either stalling or getting distracted or taking too long to find the right image... :P
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I get distracted so many times, or I look for hours and settle for an image I don't even want
I've followed you on Tumblr Val! It's so great to not be so visible about all the drama in the community, that means your friends are awesome ;) I love what you said about the roadside assistant, there's always a way out isn't there? ?
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YES THERE IS ALWAYS A WAY OUT. And to keep myself calm, I just remind myself that everything will be okay in the end no matter what. AND THANKS FOR THE FOLLOW, even though I'm not the most active hahahah.
I'm really bad at continuing to do things to but I hope we continue blogging for a few more years yet :) Help, it takes forever for me to find gifs too but I must include them or everything feels incomplete. AND NOAH FROM THE RAVEN BOYS IS SUCH A CUTE PUPPY~
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Yes I'm hoping that I will be around for at least 2 more years? AND HOPEFULLY MORE. AND YES TO NOAHHHHHH :)
It's always interesting to read post like these. I'm like you. I'm ba at continuing something for long. Either I lost interest in it or.... I forget about it xD

Great post :)
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1 reply · active 503 weeks ago
Yeah I REALLY hope I don't lose interest in something like this!

Thanks!
Dude, NO. I just called it that because of the weird and dumb show, and the connotations that the REAL title (The Secret Life of a Blogger) brought to mind. Now I have confused everyone! Sorry about that. But I would blame ABC Family for inflicting that horrible show on us to begin with. Really, it's their fault if you think about it. Also, you live in America. Just saying.

P.S.- I will never let you vanish.
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OH SO YOU DUPED ME THIS ENTIRE TIME. WOW EVERYONE IS GOING TO THINK THIS IS AMERICAN. WOW SHANNON WOW. WOW. WOWOWOWOOWOWWOWOWOW

Yes you have confused me.

And I live in Canada in spirit.

P.S.- Good. You're in charge of making me blog
Hey, ^, I resent that "weird and dumb show" comment. ;) Even though I've only seen a few episodes. Still, Shailene, the main actress, <3

Oh, right, this is Val's blog. ;) I already told you this on Twitter, but I'm so jealous you were born in Canada! That's so cool. Kind of. I mean, it is and I am really jealous. Anyway, I love your blog layouts and pictures and how you said you're basically competing with yourself. It's nice to see how you've (general 'you've') improved over time.

Tumblr! I used to love Tumblr and would be on there all the time. Then I started blogging and like all things involving writing, discovered I cannot blog at my book blog and another blog (regularly) at the same time, haha. I have been visiting Tumblr more though.
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HAHAHAHA. Was that the first time she appeared?

YEAH THIS IS MY BLOG. Why are you jealous? I can never become president! But you can become president. Awwww thanks Amberrrr

I have not been visiting Tumblr more. WAIT WHAT IS YOUR URL????

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