Thursday, March 2, 2017

Why Is Blogging Hard All Of A Sudden?


Hello there. Long time no see.

Going to be honest with you guys, life has become really rough. It's getting harder and harder to juggle blogging, reading, video games, my social life, and oh right, graduate school. It's a big part of why I haven't been great at scheduling posts or reviews. Which is fine, because education comes first! Though with that being said, I do miss blogging. I just am not great at taking the time to start a post.

But moving along, I've decided to list a bunch of reasons why I am just not as motivated as I've been in the past. So here we go.

1. I have nothing to say about certain books. This has also been an issue in the past, but I managed to overcome it somehow. Now that I am even less motivated than before, it's been harder to word my thoughts into full, coherent reviews. Especially when I have NOTHING to say. Sadness.

2. 50% of the time, there's a cat sitting on my keyboard. I throw her off sometimes. But other times she's just too darn cute and cuddly. Case in point BELOW

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3. Current Events. I hate all the bad things happening in our country. HATE THEM. Because personally, I'm doing great. My life is great. But the rest of the world? Not so much. How am I supposed to blog, flail, TALK about books on Twitter, when the WORLD IS BURNING. Sorry, exaggeration.

4. Speaking of the above, I am constantly distracted by Twitter and Instagram. Especially instagram, as it's very easy to post photos everyday. At least for me, I end up taking photos all on the weekend. Though that may change depending on how much time I have. Who knows.

5. I can't write up posts because I have stats homework. Or other types of work. Or research. Or I have to prep a lecture that I'm giving, to a class, to about 100 students. Fun fun.

6. No motivation to discuss ANYTHING. What is there to discuss nowadays? I'm really not passionate about many things when it comes to discussion topics (and I'm not talking about discussions from Book Twitter, but more innocuous things, like Do You DNF, or Do You Watch Book to Movie Adaptions). I just don't really have full fledged thoughts on any of those topics. Which to be honest, is not a change from past Val. Past Val didn't care about ANY of those things! (and still doesn't)

7. EVERYONE IS LEAVING ME. There are fewer and fewer blog posts on my feed. WHY. WHERE ARE YOU ALL GOING. I rarely see you on Twitter anymore!

8. Speaking of, I have no time to comment as much as I used to. I used to comment A LOT. Like at least 20 to 30 posts a week. Now? If I make it to 5 I'm happy. But yeah, that definitely leads to less interactions, and that makes me sad.

9. I want to make all the graphics. Thanks to my school, I get all Adobe products for free. But thanks to my school, I want to make all the graphics, and I can't. I even opened up a Society6 store solely so I could buy my own things (and let others buy them too I guess). Like I made this "I'm A Plant Killer" mug, because I kill every single plant I touch.


Unfortunately the problem is, this takes hours. And often times, I am not pleased with the results.

10. Apparently I have friends. I'm busy every weekend, whether I'm going hiking, sleeping over my friend's house, going on trips, eating out, there's barely any time left for anything. I don't regret it, but I do wish there was just more time in the day. That would be nice.


So I think that is that. Obviously I am going to try to blog at least once in a while, but I think I'm done with blog schedules. Reviews will happen when they happen, I suppose.

Until then, you are stuck with me and my blog :P

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I lived by the mantra that blogging is as much as what you put in. With my own personal dip in commenting (and just being present in the community), I surely noticed the change in the community to which I had built for myself. That's on me, I guess, but the prior joy of commenting is a lot more difficult now when I'm getting home at like 8-9 p.m. and all I want to do is Blanket Burrito and/or sleep. Such is [blogging] life, I guess.

Add to that the fact that other things just seem that much more exciting and fun with immediate [often guaranteed] pleasure re: by gaming etc., the immediate gratification just isn't there. Maybe that's just my pessimistic change in perspectives though with being in Year 3+ of blogging. Yikes I'm old af.
1 reply · active 431 weeks ago
This is pretty relatable. I am also quite busy and have a hard deadline for a major project in about 10 days. I should seriously be working on that right now....

But I also get distracted by social media, and I've actually made it a goal to look at Twitter only briefly each day, focusing primarily on tweeting myself or replying to tweets. I also think this will help with feeling drained. A lot of people are stressed with current events and such and it is leaking onto social media. That's not a bad thing, objectively. But I have personally found going on social media a stressful and negative experience recently, and I think taking a step back will help me be more productive with blogging and other things.

I've noticed fewer posts in my feed, as well. It makes interacting with the community harder because I feel like no one is posting anything, but I've been blogging long enough (almost six years, in May!) to realize that people go away and sometimes I have to make an actual effort for find new, active blogs to read. But, yeah, effort.... ;)
1 reply · active 431 weeks ago
I am happy that you're still sticking around regardless! I have been lacking in the motivation department too, but mainly because I've been super busy with Toby and wedding planning. A lot of ppl seemed to be in the same boat, so you're not alone Val!
1 reply · active 431 weeks ago
wow. You have friends. I am offended. I rage quit your blog. Never coming here again.
JK
Also, the world burning is probs not an exaggeration. It sure does feel like it most of the time.
1 reply · active 431 weeks ago
You do you, Val! We'll be here. But I totally understand, especially #2. It is important that you submit to your feline overlords.
1 reply · active 431 weeks ago
I was just asked this past Christmas to contribute to WLABB. One of the reasons I was asked to contribute is because they are all college students and have not time to pleasure read. I read a lot, and have always written reviews on GoodReads, so it's sort of the status quo for me. But it's new, and I know my zeal will cool. I really enjoy the interactions, though, because I don't have IRL readers to discuss with. Everyone watches TV. Good list. The trade off for the positive reasons are a great thing too.
1 reply · active 431 weeks ago
Aww, I've missed you!! But I think it's ok if our tastes/schedules change. Like we do what we gotta! And if blogging isn't fitting into your life so consistently, then we can all just hang out for the occasional post, right?!? (Also your plant mug is cute.😂) Oh but I don't think we should stop flailing over books just because the world sucks. That means the suckiness is winning AND WE DON'T WANT IT TO WIN!!
1 reply · active 431 weeks ago
Blog schedules are overrated anyways!! I sometimes read the books and have nothing to say. That is tough especially on review books. UGH. You sound like you have a lot of amazing stuff going on though so that is pretty awesome. No worries on blogging. We will still be here when you are able to come around :)
1 reply · active 431 weeks ago
Blog schedules never work for me. I've been blogging for 5 years now and I still just write my posts the night before and that works for me. I just can't force myself to read books on a certain day to review them. And ugh I feel you about not having much to say about certain books. My reviews are so repetitive and I don't know how else to write them.
But you sound like you're having a blast outside of blogging, so go you! I'm excited that you're getting into designing. It's fun but definitely time consuming.
1 reply · active 431 weeks ago
WORD.

*whines* It's just...I've been so tired lately.
1 reply · active 431 weeks ago
You have FRIENDS!? WHo aren't US!? I am appalled. Not okay, Valerie. Not okay. :@ Seriously though, it IS hard- and I agree about the people disappearing. No one told them they were allowed to leave! What even!? I want to make things too. Most of them have to do with The 100 because as you know, I have a serious addiction problem. It's okay. Most of the time I feel like I have nothing to say too which is... unsettling. I like to say stuff! But alas. Don't even think about ditching us, Val.
5 replies · active 431 weeks ago
I soooo relate Val. Lacking motivation: check. Cats sitting on your lap at inopportune moments: check. Current events bringing me down: check.

But I'm happy you are sticking around! And don't worry about schedules or anything, I'll still be reading :)
1 reply · active 431 weeks ago
Life gets in the way of blogging. It happens! I know I often get distracted by real life things and those carefully constructed plans to catch up on blog related things goes out of the window. It's just one of those things. And it doesn't seem like you've been slacking off, you've just got different priorities. It's hard to be motivated to comment on blogs and write blog posts when you have other things you put first. I've never really had solid plans when it comes to my blog, I take it as it comes and that's often more fun. You cand o what you want and it's low stress and way more interesting anyway because you can do what you care about.
1 reply · active 431 weeks ago
I've had the same struggle of motivation and not really having time to comment. I don't feel like I have any less time than I did a few years ago, but a few years ago I also let my writing suffer in favor of blogging. When I decided that it was better for the blogging to suffer, of course it did, so it happens. I'm still trying to hang around though because I don't want to fall off the face of the planet. :)
1 reply · active 431 weeks ago
I'm here!!! *waves*, but I relate. I'm sure my blog gets bored, 10000%, of the time because I only post reviews. I was contemplating doing discussions, but I've been SO busy with school and I have two-hour presentation for Child's Lit coming up on Wednesday. I'm def on Twitter && Instagram, too, even though I never post there but I love everyone's Insta-stories, but I retweet like crazy on Twitter because it's always awesome there, and because people literally just on one another for sharing opinions. #sigh

AWW. Love the cameo from your cat. She's adorb as hell, but don't worry, Val. We're all still around. haha.
1 reply · active 431 weeks ago
I am feeling you on the blogging thing. Lately I'm kind of just like ??? about the whole thing. I'm finding it so hard to motivate myself to reply to comments, and leave comments on other blogs. Which is SAD and TERRIBLE. Because these things are the life's blood of blogging. Really, what IS blogging without commenting? Without the interaction? This week I've tried to tell myself that Tuesday and Friday (my post days) are also going to be 'get as much blogging done as you can days', as well, because I really need to pick up my own slack *sobbing*

Reviewing is almost like a chore to me now which is TERRIFYING because what would I do without reviews? WHAT WOULD WE ALL DO? I don't know. I just have this pile of reviews I have to write and I'm either like: yeah, read this book because it's good. Or: nah, this book wasn't so great. But I have to FILL that in with all this stuff and AHHH.

Anyway, I hope you're happy with where you are with blogging, Valerie <3
1 reply · active 430 weeks ago
I understand about things getting tougher IRL and making it hard to put any focus at all on blogging. My commenting has especially suffered lately. Sigh. On the plus side, I love your plant-killer mug---I could definitely use one of those! LOL!

Nicole @ Feed Your Fiction Addiction
#1, #6, and #7 definitely apply to me too! Sometimes I feel like I've lost my blogging mojo. Even if I do come up with an idea, I just feel zero motivation to actually write it up.

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