Thursday, November 17, 2016

All About Self-Care


I blatantly copied Shannon’s idea for this post. Because I can. To be honest it has been really hard to get back to blogging and books since the election. Combine that with family matters, in which I had to travel to Canada for (coincidentally I did escape the country, haha), it’s been rough. How do I go back to everything with what’s been happening?

Here I’ll be listing what I’ll be doing for, pretty much the next four years, or at least the next couple of weeks.

1. Drown out my fears and anxiety by playing pretty much all the video games. At the moment I am playing The Witcher 3, and I am contemplating starting over because I am a completionist, and I start having multiple saves. Plus, it has such a steep learning curve, and it was pretty hard for me to get into it until I realized I missed a couple of things.


2. Start reading my favorite blogs again. I don’t even want to check my Feedly at the moment, because there’s most likely 500 unread posts.

3. New York Times crossword puzzles. Yeah, I am addicted to crossword puzzles. I ended up buying a NYT subscription and though I’m not sure if I’ll keep it, I do love the puzzles. I might just end up paying for the crossword puzzles by themselves if I see that I have enough time to do them. You know, along with all the other things I do nowadays.


4. Retail Therapy. If only I had all the money to support this haha!

5. Donate. Honestly, this is more important to me than buying actual things, though I did buy Evie’s sticker *points to button on sidebar* to distribute to my friends. Two organizations I will be donating to later this month are Planned Parenthood (loving how 12.5% of donations were in Mike Pence’s name LOL) and ACLU.

6. Create graphics. I was able to download Adobe Illustrator from my university for free, and I’m learning how to use it. It’s surprisingly very different from Photoshop, but it’s allowed me to open different file formats that PSD could not. Now I can manipulate all those freebie vectors I've hoarded from Creative Market these last two years.

7. Cuddle with my cat. Who probably hates me for leaving her alone for a week. Sorry Primrose. I promise to spoil you when I get home.


8. Watch all the TV shows. There are some I’m looking forward to, such as A Series of Unfortunate Events. I’m still in the middle of The Office, and I’ll probably watch it until I get tired of it. Or until my favorite couple gets married. I also started Supergirl, but the DC series feel a bit too cheesy for me, which is the problem with I had with The Flash. I might try the second episode, or I could just go straight to Daredevil S2 and Luke Cage.

9. Watch all the movies. Next week Moana is coming out, which I am pretty excited for. Fantastic Beasts is coming out this weekend, but I’m still not sure whether I actually want to see it. I guess I’ll see what everyone says about it. ALSO KUNG FU PANDA 3 IS ON NETFLIX.

When you can quote the entire movie, because of how many times you've watched it

10. Have hope in the people. Do I have hope in Donald Trump and his team? No, not at all. Do I have hope in everyone protesting against him and donating? Yes. Do I have hope in the organizations that will fight to protect all of our rights? Yes. Do I have hope that more people will speak out? Yes. Do I have hope that the people who did vote for him will be ultimately disappointed and realize they will be paying more in taxes? Yes. Bottom line, even though there is little I can do in this matter, I still have faith in people. Hate will never be normalized.

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Hey Val, I loved both your and Shannon's posts. I've started reading my favorite bloggers again (after I've been failing at that for months now) and it's been wonderful to both see how everyone else is coping as well as a necessary distraction. (Also cat cuddles are the best, and I love that yours is named Primrose!)
Ooh, I'm addicted to crossword puzzles, too! *high fives+* You can also get books of old puzzles if you don't want to keep up your subscription.

Thanks for this post. It was a good reminder. And I completely agree with #10.
Eeep, I love this post!! And these are really great. I mean, I would love to do retail therapy too...especially with books....buuuut that probably won't happen. Okay DEFINITELY won't. But it'd be nice!! 😭😂 And ooh, that's awesome that you're going to create graphics and things!! That's awesome. :D Will we get to see some of your marvellous creations? And honestly cuddling with pets is one of the best emotional stabilisers. <3 Pets are precious and pure little creatures and not out to destroy the world, bless them.
I THINK you meant to say "I copied Shannon's post because she is the most wonderful human being to ever human". It's okay, understandable typo.

Also, is Illustrator better than Photoshop? I feel like I *should* invest in one of them but... money, you know? I need to know which one is best for me of course. And spot on use of a THG gif. Because that is legit our society right now, yes? Also, I like your hope, it makes my heart less broken. Love youuu ♥♥
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I had to laugh when you said that you actually escaped the country. I'm sure you were glad for a little time away from this madness!
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I totally feel with the retail therapy - I'd love to go on a shopping spree right now <3
And cuddling with cats?? THAT'S A MUST.
And I hope you enjoy Moana, and get to see Fantastic Beasts :)
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Word.

Let's take care of ourselves but stay angry for what had transpired a couple of weeks ago. I had to step back after that day because nothing felt right. I'm back now, though and I'm looking forward to doing my part in opposing anything he stands for. And I know I live in Canada, but I will certainly do my part in my way.
I love how you copied Shannon for this post hehe. I actually haven't played video games since F4 came out, that's really poor I know lol. It's wonderful that you're indulging in things that you really enjoy during this time though. Lots of love to you Val!
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Loved this post and Shannon's. My favorite things to do is watch Disney movies and using my bullet journal.

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Great list! I do a lot of the same, lol.

Btw, I love your blog - I'm a new follower ^^
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ahhh, how did I miss this post?! I'm glad you've been taking the time for self-care! It's so easy to forget to do that, and to feel like you shouldn't, but it's so important. I do have hope, not much, but I do. I'm just taking it a day at a time right now and trying not to think of the future bc omg anxiety. I've also been binge-watching quite a bit. Mostly Friends, which I am always rewatching. And I'm still trying to finish Gilmore Girls, but I haaaate season 7 and I want to quit. Also, The 100. :p Snuggling with the kittens has also been fabulous. Oh, and retail therapy, which is my fave. And Atlanta will be AMAZINGGGG. I hadn't read much at all in November/December, but I'm getting back into it, and it's great. Play all the video games, Val, and take care of yourself <3
Your list is really good! That's pretty much what I do :)

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